At some stage in your life, you have to come out of your shell. A life with a glass ceiling is not a life well-lived. Most of us have fooled ourselves into thinking something or someone is holding us back. However, the truth is the only person standing in our way when it comes to living our best life or finding love is US! Not our family, boss, friends or exes but us.
We have told ourselves stories that we are not good enough or worthy of anything good in our life.
As if that's not the saddest part of all we know the stories that we tell ourselves are lies but we choose to believe them anyway.
Instead of focusing our attention and energy on building ourselves up, we search for that injection of poison to re-enforce the storyline that we have told ourselves.At some point, we have stop fantasising our funeral and start thinking about that light at the end of the tunnel. Of course, this is easier said than done. I am a firm believer that time heals all.